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Baesics

About the Authors

Ernest and Waturi Wamboye have been married since September 2012. They have two daughters: Thandiwe, born in July 2016 and Ivanna born in September 2018. The Wamboyes are passionate to see the Gospel of Jesus Christ clearly taught and understood in our post-modern world. They are champions of biblical discipleship and furthering the Kingdom of God by transforming one person at a time. They are the founders of The Relationship Centre Ltd (TRC), an organisation that aims to promote biblical family values in contemporary urban communities. Under the umbrella of TRC they run the following ministries: Boy Meets Girl, a quarterly relationships forum to help young people marry well, Powerhouse, a men’s pornography addiction recovery program and a couples' premarital and post-marital forum. You can keep up with their award-winning blog, Pen Strokes: www.penstrokes.co.ke

CHAPTER ONE: First Things First - In this section, we outline the importance of placing the horse before the cart - God the Creator.
CHAPTER TWO: You Need A Master? - The more sincere you are with the truth, the greater success you have in your love relationships. If truth is not your master, you’ll be out of touch with reality & the results in relationships will not be as rosy as we would want.
CHAPTER THREE: You Need A Purpose? - A paramount pursuit during the season of being alone is to be burdened with purpose. What am I made for?
CHAPTER FOUR: You Need To Wait Patiently - Patience is not merely about waiting, but really about having the right set of attitudes and skills as you wait. A waiting period is not a wasted period if you put it to good use.
CHAPTER FIVE: Be The One - Are you the person that the person you are looking for is looking for? If that’s a mouthful, we will simplify it and ask, “Would you date you?”
CHAPTER SIX: Find The One - You must choose wisely. Before you marry, you have the freedom to choose the mate to love. After you marry, you only have the responsibility to love the mate you chose. The decision is fragile. In this section, see who is in and who is out.
CHAPTER SEVEN: Man Enough - Every man must realise that the goal of the enemy is to emasculate the man, discourage the woman and destroy up the family unit.
CHAPTER EIGHT: Girl Power - Women ought to source their strength from the right power in order to be the most suitable candidates for their future marriages.
CHAPTER NINE: Emotional Purity - This section leads us through practical wisdom on healthy boundaries to maintain healthy relationships and avoid emotionally awkward situations.
CHAPTER TEN: Sexual Purity - This section busts myths on living a pure life whilst encouraging the reader that victory is possible and advantageous.
CHAPTER ELEVEN: A Letter From Lust to a Man - Of all the tactics of the enemy, none is often as damning and destructive as sexual immorality. If a man masters the sin that is knocking at the door, he will do well.
CHAPTER TWELVE: Accountability - Accountability offers a healthy community for godly relationships to thrive. A lack of accountability leaves individuals set up for imminent failure in their man-woman relationships.
CHAPTER THIRTEEN: Hurts And Wounds - Unforgiveness and bitterness are the enemies of peaceful relationships. This section gives you the tools to conquer these villains of the heart.
CHAPTER FOURTEEN: Happily Ever After - Happily-ever-afters are not reserved for Disney. They are available for those that pursue God’s will, not just now but also in the afterlife.

Reader Reviews

To say that Ernest Wamboye has a divine calling and timely message for today’s youth is a mere understatement. ‘Baesics’ is the most masterfully woven of his literary tapestry yet! Highly considered by many to be an ‘African Josh McDowell’ equivalent (and who knows – an African James Dobson in his later years?), Ernest hits at the crux of the matter affecting many singles today who are craving for the elusive ‘happily ever after’ that marriage is touted to offer. In this marred world of sin where the stark reality of breakups and divorce tends to be eons away from the dream of marital utopia, this book sheds a ray of hope to the many disillusioned and broken-hearted singles of today. It is possible to have an immensely joyful and fulfilling man-woman relationship exemplified in holy matrimony as God intended it to be. After all, He is the author of love Himself! And through these pages filled with thought-provoking insights and practical examples, you will discover the Master’s divine secrets to making your relationship and marriage work, drawn from principles stated in His user manual – the Bible. What better way is there to drive your future to success than to follow your Manufacturer’s instructions? This is a must-read for anyone in pursuit of their marriage Eden, where perfect love all began. And true to its name, ‘Baesics’ seeks to take us back to the basics. ‘Happily ever after’ does exist after all.

Dr. Frederick K Wangai

- Medical Doctor
Marriage is God's plan and idea and we all need to invest in order to draw from what He had in mind when He created it. This book gives raw truths on the struggles of waiting and how to wait well no matter what the societal expectations are. It gives a clear disclaimer that our standards are not to be set by the world but by God and His word. I would recommend it for anyone who not only just wants to marry but desires to marry well. I would also recommend it for those struggling in their marriages no matter how long they have been married, going back to the basics may be just what their marriages need. Very simply written and the fantastic insights can be used as a study guide in small groups.

Jane Nyaga

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